Especially since I had to find out about her being exceptionally upset with the game, above and beyond how I was feeling, through third-parties.

I see that, and raise you a "and I found out nothing beyond what was just said here." [Expletive deleted], I just love it when people can't bring whatever issues may be there on the table, so that others can actually know what's going on.

(I do remember seeing that "I've started a monster" post which now seems to be gone (deleted?), but that post had comments disabled so that I couldn't ask what the frell was the matter. Yay for communication. :( )

I'll say more on this later (things to do now, plus I gotta sort out my feelings).